When Should Your Child Start Playing Competitive Sports?
One of the joys of parenting is watching your child participate, bond, and cherish the passion for sports. From weekend soccer tournaments to family H-O-R-S-E games in the backyard basketball court, getting children acquainted with the active, recreational opportunities sports have to offer is an essential component of watching them grow.
An inevitable question that most parents ultimately are faced with is when is the appropriate age for a child to start getting involved in competitive sports? There’s seemingly never a wrong time to have kids start to learn the games they’ll eventually love, but throwing competition into the mix can be a lot for some children to handle, depending on how old they are.
Are you considering signing up your child for little league or contemplating building a backyard tennis court to give them a head start on the competition? Then there are a few factors to keep in mind before officially introducing your kid to the world of competitive sports.
Here are our recommendations and tips for deciding when is the appropriate time to enroll your child in competitive sports.
Gauge Their Interest
As a sports parent, the last thing you want to see out on any given indoor or outdoor game court is both teams competing near a basket or goal while your child is on the opposite side of the playing field, picking dandelions or worse.
First things first, if your child has shown little to no interest in playing sports, let alone participating in a competitive league, then it’s safe to say that you should probably wait a few years to let that interest in sports manifest itself.
The last thing you want to do is force your child to not only jolt themselves into an excessive recreational activity but also commit their time, focus, and energy to something they aren’t necessarily sold on.
You should gauge your child’s interest in sports around 6-8 years of age, introducing them to various sports and activities to get a read on what skills come to them quickly or which sports they appear to enjoy most.
According to Family-Resources.org, kids in competitive sports before the age of eight might not be able to handle the pressure of winning and losing. It’s also a very young age to subject children to measuring their performance against other kids and potentially being cut from a team. That’s why they suggest eight years old as the optimal time for competitive sports.
Assess Their Competition
If it’s evident your child is interested in competing in sports, the next step is assessing their skills and the level of competition they seem best suited for. You never want to rush your child into an overly competitive league or team, especially if they’re just getting acquainted with the game and their role within it.
If it’s apparent that your kid has the significant skill and a natural feel for the sport, then by all means, sign them up for a league that’s more focused on honing their skills rather than introducing them to the game.
If they’re still trying to find their footing, then perhaps it’s best to find a team or league that’s emphasizing education for the game over performance.
Passion and Skill
While your child might be passionate about a sport, that does not always equate to skill. And that’s perfectly okay. However, it’s important not to put a child on a team that is too advanced for their skill level, otherwise they might end up benched, which is hard on anyone.
Parents can seek out coaches and leagues that emphasize mastery over winning, which can help a child improve their game rather than focusing on winning at all costs. Another question to ask yourself and your child is: does your child want to compete? Sometimes passion for a game doesn’t mean they want to go all in.
If your child just wants to have fun with a sport, then perhaps competitive sports are not the right place for them. However, if your child has the drive to improve and wants to compete, then you can help them on their way to a competitive team.
Evaluate the Logistics
Signing your child up for competitive sports isn’t just a commitment for them; it’s quite an obligation for you as well! The last thing you want to do is overwhelm your child with an excess of commitments, which in turn could cause them to associate that sport with stress or feeling burnt out, ultimately dissuading them from appreciating the game for what it is.
So be sure to evaluate the logistics of their schedule as well as your own. Is basketball practice multiple times a week, piano recitals, and homework feasible? Can you take time out of your work week to carpool the kids around and drive out to tournaments every weekend?
You need to address these questions before committing your child to competitive sports.
Help Them Hone Their Skills
They’re passionate about the game, they’re learning new skills, and their sports schedule is officially cemented. Now it’s time to invest in their interest! Building an at-home or outdoor game court is the perfect way to help your child hone their skills and develop their passion and love for their preferred sports.
You can even install multi-sport courts that cater to various activities, and you can keep a watchful eye on them while they develop their talents.
There are plenty of ways that kids can hone their skills, such as drills and regular practice. For example, C&C Courts has some tips on improving volleyball skills and putting skills.
Health Benefits of Sports for Children
Playing sports, whether competitively or recreationally, is great for a child’s overall health. Learning how to stay healthy and fit is not something taught in schools, so that’s where sports can come in.
From weight control, balance, hand-eye coordination, endurance, and strength are all positive ways that your child can become healthier while playing sports. Children playing sports can also build healthy, positive self-esteem, which is a vital part of growing up.
Invest in Their Future With Residential Sport Court Installation!
At the end of the day, building a backyard game court isn’t just about helping your child sharpen their sports skills. It’s about creating memories and getting them acquainted with the games that capture their attention and focus while promoting a healthy, active lifestyle.
At C&C Courts, we believe that a child’s path down the road of sports will help them learn a variety of valuable lessons later on in life that will contribute to their overall well-being.
If you’re interested in investing in your child’s recreational future through residential game court installation, contact us today to schedule a consultation with our game court design experts!